My name is Dale and I run Beyond Physical. I would like to tell you a bit about what I do and why, which in no small part includes a story of something life changing that happened to me 8 years ago.
At Beyond Physical we are dedicated to expanding the context within which you live your life. Expanding your perspective leads directly to healing. I run Beyond Physical so that I can expand on and enlighten people with these concepts.
I am dedicated to peoples overall health as a complete human being. The removal of unresolved subconscious emotion from past experiences allows for a more normal healthy functioning system.
The purpose is to remove any interferences to the perfect expression of a persons life force and to reveal the source of true health, wholeness and the manifestation of your full potential. I do this through using the revolutionary B.E.S.T system (Bio-energetic Synchronization Technique), which you may have started to read about in my introductions to B.E.S.T on this blog.
Why do I do this now? Well, In 2004, when I had just turned 20 years old, I made a decision that changed the course of my life in ways no-one knew were possible and certainly didn’t expect. One particular day, a very strange day, I was due to head back to my university in order to sit an exam I had missed in the Summer due to illness. Don’t ask me why, because the me of 2004 can’t tell you, but I didn’t head back to my uni, I went out with a friend (who I didn’t expect to be in the country), knowing full well it almost guaranteed that I wouldn’t make my exam the next day.
After some drinks, around midnight, we headed home in a cab, and I agreed to go back to his place if my parents weren’t home. As it happens, they weren’t, and off I went. Only 5 minutes away from my parents place. What could be a very long story short, at some point, around 1 am, I jumped up out of the jacuzzi and ran for the pool….incidentally, I love to swim! Employing my most perfect exclamation mark dive, I jumped off the edge and into…..the shallow end.
I will spare you the details, but on the impact with the bottom of the pool, under just 3ft of water, my c7 vertebrae shattered, punching my spinal cord and paralyzing me from the chest down. My head was split and bleeding and so were my ears. After some time in A&E and intensive care with weights screwed into and hanging off of my head,after a cage, plate and screws were inserted into my neck, a collapsed lung, tracheotomy and sedation I was transferred to a spinal unit to begin rehabilitation.
Why does all this matter? What if I told you I don’t regret doing it? What if I told you that I know that what happened that evening actually happened for reasons that develop my perfect unfoldment: For reasons that teach me what I came here to learn.
What if I told you that the only reason that I continue to recover is not because I fight being in my chair, but because I accept it. I see it for what it is, the vehicle that has led me down an 8 year journey to better understanding myself, my life purpose and all those around me.
How did that happen? Well, I found B.E.S.T and Dr. Sue Morter, who you can look up at http://www.DrSueMorter.com , a truly staggering lady that I am blessed to call my teacher, healer, inspiration and friend. After 3 or 4 years of treatment with B.E.S.T (most of it being my own hard work to change my perception of life and all its experiences), I knew that I had to train to be a practitioner to help change the lives of all those who are interested in the conversation. Now I am the only qualified practitioner in the UK! Something I am very proud of.
If I were to ask you…
Do you want better things to happen in your life?
Would you like to be healthy all the time?
Would you like to be happy all the time?
How many people would say NO? I certainly didn’t and I am now here to offer these things to other people.
It is no coincidence that I was an Opera singer and pianist, who, through the collapsed lung and spinal cord injury had the power to talk and play taken away. These things sound tragic, and they were, and they will be again if it happens to someone else, but the great thing is that they had purpose. If i had never had those abilities removed, I would never have found a passion for what I do now. In my perspective, God has a huge role to play, and whether you call something God, Nature, the universe, it doesn’t matter…..know that every experience has good in it…..we are just not trained to think that way….yet.
So, now I am 28, well recovered from how I was 8 yeas ago, but yes, still using a wheelchair permanently (not for long if I have my way!), and one of the most happy people you will meet (so I am told), and definitely one of the healthiest. Just because a part of me broke, doesn’t mean I am not healthy, so all you people out there thinking, how can she help me when she cant heal herself….believe me, I am…mine is just a long ride! 🙂
Now you know a bit more about me, I would encourage you to look at the things that have happened in your life that you have labelled as ‘bad’ and ‘definitely shouldn’t have happened’ and ‘unfair’: Can you find a lesson in them? A way to have them be good? It is so good for your health, please try! 🙂
If you fancy it, take a look at the more scientific explanation behind what I do in the blog entries, introduction to BEST part 1 and 2.
I would love to know how you get on!
I hope you enjoyed getting to know, me, ask me anything you want!
Until next time, love and light to all of you 🙂